Relationships Need Self Love Too appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
It is wonderful that you and your partner love each other so much, but if either (or both) of you are lacking in the self-love department, problems are going to pop up. As the wise and wonderful Rupaul Charles says “If you can’t love yourself how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else?”
It’s true. In any relationship, be it romantic, friendship, family, even co-workers, self-love is important if you want to have positive, healthy relationships. When you love yourself, you don’t mind being alone with yourself. Of course you may want someone in your life, but you don’t feel as though you need someone in your life to be happy. When you love yourself you are happy alone, even if you feel you would be happier sharing your life with someone else.
Relationships Need Self Love Too
When you do not love yourself, you are miserable being alone and feel you need some..
Do You Doubt Their Feelings for You? appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
Quite often in relationships we question at times if the person we are in love with has the same feelings towards us that we have towards them. Sometimes things can get so bad in relationships we begin to have doubts that the person we love feels the same way about us at all. We find ourselves thinking that the things they say and the things we do prove that they don’t have real feelings for us. Because we would never treat someone we love that way we can assume they must not love us.
The problem with a theory like that is one simple fact: People in love do not always treat one another in a loving way.
In relationships, especially ones that have been going for a long time, people wind up showing the ones they love the worst sides of themselves. The reason for this is simple. We count on the fact that those who love us, will love us warts and all. We think we..
Tired of duds emailing you? Here’s how to attract a successful guy online! Are you on the verge of giving up on online dating because you feel like all the emails you get are from guys who aren’t even remotely a good fit for you? Maybe you want a successful, loving guy, but you keep […]
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Does Your Ex Contact You Only When They Need You? appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
Does your ex contact you only when they need you? You may or may not be over your breakup and wonder what the right move is when they make contact.
First and foremost, be honest with yourself. Before you try to decipher their agenda and the real reason they are contacting you, be sure of what your real agenda is. Be truthful about your ex as well. Are they contacting you to see how you are doing, or is it only when they are having a problem and either need your help or a shoulder to cry on? Before you create a fantasy in your head that they are using this contact as a way to get back together with you, focus on reality.
If a friend of yours only made contact with you when they needed you, you wouldn’t romanticize that. You would get pissed off and feel as though they are using you, wouldn’t you? Same thing goes for your ex. They gave up the righ..
Has Your Ex Really Changed? appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
How can you tell if your ex has really changed? He or she may tell you that they have changed. As a matter of fact, they may tell you thousands of times just how much they have changed. You may want to believe them, but you shouldn’t, not right away at least. If you want to believe your ex has really changed you need to consider a few things first. The behaviors, attitude and actions that you wanted them to change were things they could have changed a long time ago. Unless you broke up with them the second you spotted those things, you more than likely gave them enough time to make those changes.
But they didn’t, did they? You probably told them over a thousand times exactly what you wanted them to change and why. Did they listen? No. They may have promised over and over, but broke those same promises over and over. They may have defended themselves and told you they ..
Single parent households are on the rise and more and more fathers have full or joint custody of children. Chances are high that you may find yourself dating a single dad. If you don’t have kids yourself, this can be both exciting and daunting. Here’s what you need to keep in mind when dating a […]
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Relationship Neglect appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
Relationship neglect is common in adult relationships. Since neglect is doing nothing, most people feel if they are doing nothing, that is better than doing something wrong. Neglect can destroy even the best of relationships over time.
A couple could start out making a sacrifice for one of their careers. They agree that right now one partner has to put a lot of time into their career and they will spend less time together. But how long can this go on before the couple grows apart? How long can the relationship suffer from neglect before it one or both partners are lonely?
Very often the partner who is focusing on their career gets used to the relationship being a low priority and never fixes the imbalance. It becomes the way of life and how their relationship rolls. Well that kind of neglect cannot continue indefinitely or the relationship is headed for a breakup. Partners ..Read More
Is he into you? Sometimes it seems like he is… other times you just don’t know. You keeping looking for signs. You analyze what he does and says. You try to get him to call. Here’s the thing… When a guy is into you… it’s obvious. This is especially the case with guys who want […]
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Love Doesn’t Make Bad Relationships, Insecurities Do appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
Love doesn’t make bad relationships, insecurities do. You may not have started out insecure in your relationship, but more often than not that is the reason your relationship has turned into a complete mess. Stop using love as an excuse. Loving someone else is no excuse for letting them treat you badly, and allowing someone to treat you badly.
Love starts with you. You have to love yourself first in order to create a loving relationship with someone else. It hurts when someone you feel love towards treats you horribly. It is time you give your love to someone else instead of continuing to pour it on someone who only uses it against you. At a certain point what you are chasing isn’t really love. You are chasing someone who doesn’t love you and trying to change their feelings for you. You can blame it on your love for them that won’t let you lea..Read More
Does He Have Your Back? appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
Does he have your back? When you need back up is he there or does he leave you alone blowing in the wind? When someone has your back, not only do they back you up, their loyalty is with you when they know you are right. They do not let you fight your battles alone, and they take your side when needed. You should be able to depend on them when you need support, and rarely have to ask for it. They are more than willing to offer up what you need.
If your partner is not willing to support you and back you up, it could be because of their own fears. For instance, a man (or woman, but for this article, we are going to use male pronouns) could be listening to you and his Mother having a verbal altercation. Even though he hears every word, and clearly knows his Mother is disrespecting you and shouldn’t be picking this fight with you, he does nothing. He is either afraid of what h..Read More
Is the One You Love Misleading You? appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise
Has the one you love been misleading you? Have they led you to believe something was true only for you to find out the shocking truth and feel devastated and betrayed? You are going to feel as though the rug was pulled out from under you. The love story you built up together has now been hit by an earthquake.
Did they lead you to believe they were over their ex and would never get back together with them? Did they mislead you into thinking they had more money than they did, or more education than they do? Have they been misleading you by making you think they were single, or fully divorced? Did they make you think they were only living with someone in a platonic way? Had you been lead to believe that you were the only person they were dating, or sleeping with?
No one wants to find out that what they believed to be true is false. If this happened to you, mor..Read More
Is he ready to get married? Here’s how to tell! HI Beautiful One, You’ve heard the excuses before. “It’s not you. It’s me.” “You deserve someone better.” “I’m not ready.” It seemed like you were on the same page, and then BAM, the guy you were seeing over the past few months had a sudden […]
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