New year, new day, a new spirit, new person, and of course also new love
(or even old love just still not succeed to declare it because it can not melt the heart of him).
It’s time to launch your latest tactics! Quiet boys, because in this new year you can begin to reorganize the strategy to make him yield and could eventually reciprocate your feelings and get started early happy together.
Indeed, going as gorgeous and cool as any women who are you to pursue (based on an assessment of each you know, yes!), Eventually, they will melt as well if you are still struggling to gain her love despite being rejected many times.
1. Do not rush
The first step you can do is not to rush and make him comfortable with being a good friend even though you have more feelings for him.Usually, a woman would be more comfortable to be with someone who already knows and understands her desire without them having to say it first.So how do I become a good friend?
Well, you can start by being a good listener and always there at every opportunity, especially when he needs friends or help.Every now and then try to ask him about the criteria of the man he likes.From here, you can get valuable information that can be used to attract attention and melt his heart someday.Once rowing, two three islands exceeded, okay!
2. Encourage him to do what he likes
Does she like to climb a mountain? Traveling? Watching movies? Watch music? Or even cook? Well, this is a good time to make it to him.When he is getting saturated with daily activities that make him feel tired, you can invite him to refresh the mind by doing various things he likes on the weekend or deliberately take advantage of the allocation of leave.Quite right, but can be closer to him, you can also try out new things.
Make the best time possible when you are with him, yes!Here you can understand it more deeply and can be someone who is there when needed.But, you can also occasionally invite him to do the things you like.let’s just let me understand each other.A win-win solution, okay!
3. Insightful but not cocky
Most women like men who are knowledgeable, because they can talk about so many things.But do not let you be smart and arrogant, yes!Having this broad insight does not mean you have to be a smart with a myriad of achievements, at least understand the current developments in the world, especially things that he likes.In this way, you will not run out of a chat with him, right?
4. Be kind to everyone, especially women
It sounds like a cliche, but it’s true that women love good men in others, especially how they treat women.A small example is when you will cross the street, try you with a direct sprightly to the right of him while crossing, so they feel protected.Or can also lend your jacket when he feels cold without having to be asked first.Believe do not believe, it is this small action like that will gradually melt his heart over time.
5. Look attractive and fragrant
You must have heard the saying “do not judge a book by its cover“, right?Although this proverb is not entirely wrong, almost most women will still see the appearance of a person (especially men) as important, especially when it comes to the heart.Hence, it’s important to always pay attention to your appearance, especially when with the woman you love.
Look attractive does not mean you have to have a beautiful face and ideal body, really!Especially when considering the type of man every woman’s dreams must be different.This can be measured by how you dress and keep the body.This is because women like men who are clean and smell good.Why has a handsome face and a mouth that body odor?Avoiding all sorts of unpleasant smells will also make you feel confident when approaching women that you like, right?Hence, it never hurts to pay attention to your body hygiene from now on.Believe me, because in fact all men are created as a special creature.
6. Having a long-term plan
Not just love and affection, women also like men who already have long-term plans in life and have the spirit and willingness to make it happen.So, if until now you still lazy-lazy and become a spoiled child, then grave your wish that he fell in love in 2018.
7. Male established
Women will also fall in love with established men.Wait a while, well established in this case do not always have to swing treasure, you know!Having a steady job and having the income to meet daily needs without having to ask the parents is also quite well established.Plus, able to manage finances well.In this way, the women will think of you as an independent man and not troubling others.
8. Have a good sense of humor
Sure, for some women, a cool guy is an interesting and curious person.Humorous men will make them feel happy with their jokes together.But, still, you have to know when it’s time to joke, and when to be serious.
9. Easily adapt to the environment
Boys, be a man who is easy to adapt to the environment, especially the friendly environment of women you like.If before you become his girlfriend you have forbidden him to hang out with his friends, he might feel restrained, especially when he became his girlfriend later.Well, your relationship will not last long.By hanging out with friends will also provide its own advantages for you.Just imagine, if not from his friends, where else would you get help and information to make him fall in love?
Although however, the woman destined as weak.Well, here’s where you can demonstrate your ability as a man who could be relied upon in various ways.The small thing you can do is, for example, is willing when he asks for help to pair the cabinet, replace the bulb, or just to deliver home to him.Little things like this that often make women think, “Well, it turns out he is a man who swift and reliable”
11. Not stingy
If you are a calculating or stingy man (even to yourself), it’s better not to expect much of him to fall in love.Most women do not like it when there is a stingy man who approached him, especially when he first went together.Sure, you’re not the obligation to buy a variety of things, but if you get a parking money or money for petrol ye exact to him, if not stingy, then what is it?
If you are a calculating or stingy man (even to yourself), it’s better not to expect much of him to fall in love.Most women do not like it when there is a stingy man who approached him, especially when he first went together.Sure, it’s not your duty to buy him various things, but if the parking money or gasoline money you just bill to him, if not stingy, then what’s the name?
12. Serious man
However, women love men who are serious and mature in their thinking.Well, if you are serious about wanting to build a relationship with him to a more serious level, it’s good to deliver it at the beginning.Believe me, most women will surely consider men who have serious goals with him.many women who dream to get a serious partner.
13. Give time for yourself aka me time
“Give me a chance to miss you, do not come on …”
You must know the same song that Said Sincere this one?Yup, it’s true if there is always when they need is a good thing.But do not forget that they also need time for their own, right?Give them space to do their own thing.Additionally, when you give it too would later be made sense of longing that comes with sudden indicating that he had started to fall in love with you.Well, while waiting for the longing to come, you can also do things that you like.It’s a good thing, right?
14. Be patient and understand his preoccupation
You also need to be a patient man and can understand the busyness that he did, but still give little attention to him like the question, “do not forget to eat, yes!”, “Do not forget to rest for a while” or just give the spirit to him.Wait for him to let you know when he’s done with his business.Occasionally it’s okay to give her a little surprise by sending her a lunch or a meal she likes.Not difficult, right?
15. Love family and diligent worship
Men who love family and diligent worship is the desire of all women.Why?Because a man like this is considered to be a good leader for his family someday.
16. Show off your talent
Got musical talent or other fields?Well, occasionally invite him to see or enjoy the talent that you have.If you have the talent to play the guitar, try to show your ability in front of it, or if you have a hobby of cooking, you can also send the results of your cooking for lunch.
Here are some steps you can look into and make to the woman you love falling in 2018.So, your dream to build a serious relationship with he will be achieved easily.But, if he does not fall in love and reply to your feelings, maybe this is the right time to find another woman and re-apply the above strategy.The point is, never tried to fight for your love, yes!