Month: February 2018

Relationships Should Not be Left to Chance

Relationships Should Not be Left to Chance appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise

Relationships should not be left to chance. Everything we, as a couple, do creates the relationship we have currently and shapes its future. Resolved issues can be left behind, but unresolved issues come along with us going forward, and if it was a problem in the past, it will be a problem in the future. Don’t think you can leave your relationship up to chance and it will all work out. There is just as great a chance of it not working out.

We all need to realize that what we and our partners put into a relationship, is what we will get out of it. If we put in the time for quality time together, we have a better chance of growing together as a couple instead of growing apart. Time alone should not build trust between a couple, instead how we behave over time is what should earn trust.

If you take too many risks and too many chances and cause damage to ..

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Monogamy in Relationships is not Always Easy

Monogamy in Relationships is not Always Easy appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise

Monogamy in relationships is not always easy. When a relationship gets comfortable, sometimes the eyes and heart begin to wander. The trust that has been built over time could be in jeopardy if they wander too far. Not all people want to be in committed, monogamous relationships. That is the first part of the problem.

If you want monogamy to be part of your relationship but the one you love does not, you may not be compatible where it really counts. When a couple starts dating, the subject of monogamy should be approached early on to learn each others views. If, right away, someone expresses a desire for monogamy at some point, you know that point will eventually come and it will have to be dealt with.

If you are looking for different things from a relationship, they might not be the right person for you. Sure, over time, they may change their mind, ..

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How to Recognize a Bad Relationship

How to Recognize a Bad Relationship appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise

It’s crucial to recognize a bad relationship in its early stages. The warning signs are often there, but people tend to excuse them or ignore them. In the first few months of dating mostly all you see is their good side, but there are often ways you can tell if a relationship will be good or bad for you.

When you first start dating, you may spend time only together. But if they always want to keep you all to themselves and give you a hard time about you spending time with your friends or family you need to recognize this is going to be a bad relationship down the line. Cutting you off from those closest to you is a bad sign.

If you hear too much about their ex, or they are spending too much time with (or talking to their ex) is another way of recognizing a bad relationship early on. It is not going to get better if they do not have healthy boundaries with the..

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Inconsistency in Relationships: How Do You Manage It?

Inconsistency in Relationships: How Do You Manage It? appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise

Inconsistency is relationships really keeps a relationship from moving forward. When the one you love sends you mixed messages with their inconsistency, such as their thoughts, emotions, and behavior, you never really know where you stand. When the one you love acts and speaks in ways that make you believe they really care and are fully committed to you and the relationship, you are on cloud nine. But when they suddenly behave and speak in ways that are the exact opposite, you feel like the rug has been pulled out from under your feet. So what should you believe?

If they were pretty consistent most of the time but during fights or stressful situations acted differently then you have to go with the consistent behavior as being their true thoughts and feelings. All relationships for the most part, have times when we say and do things we don’t r..

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You Want an Exclusive Relationship and He Doesn’t

You Want an Exclusive Relationship and He Doesn’t appeared first on Relationships Reality and was authored by Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise

What do you do when you want an exclusive relationship and they don’t? Many women believe their only option is to hang in there until they do. This is not always a wise idea.

The passage of time and the good times you spend together do not guarantee that at any point they will want an exclusive relationship with you. If being exclusive is important to you, and not to them, you are not compatible in a major way. You are not looking for the same kind of relationship right now, and may never be on the same page.

So what should you do if you want an exclusive relationship and they don’t? First, you should have a discussion with them (not just with your friends) and ask them why you are not exclusive, and then listen to their answer. If they say they are not looking for an exclusive relationship right now, ask them if they think they ever will. If th..

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